In-law and step-family name chart

What to call every in-law and step relative, and what you are to them in return. 100 relationships, of which 63 have no single word in English, which is why people reach for the nearest one and the same phrase ends up meaning several different things. Each row links to a fuller answer.

In-laws (62)

The connectionWhat to call themWhat you are to themA word for it?
your aunt → her husbanduncle by marriageniece or nephew by marriageNo single word
your brother → his husbandbrother-in-lawsibling-in-lawYes
your brother → his wifesister-in-lawsibling-in-lawYes
your brother-in-law → his daughterniece by marriageaunt or uncle by marriageNo single word
your brother-in-law → his sonnephew by marriageaunt or uncle by marriageNo single word
your brother-in-law → his wifeco-sister-in-lawco-sibling-in-lawNo single word
your child → their husbandson-in-lawparent-in-lawYes
your child → their wifedaughter-in-lawparent-in-lawYes
your cousin → her husbandfirst cousin by marriagefirst cousin by marriageNo single word
your cousin → his wifefirst cousin by marriagefirst cousin by marriageNo single word
your daughter → her husbandson-in-lawparent-in-lawYes
your daughter → her wifedaughter-in-lawparent-in-lawYes
your daughter-in-law → her fatherco-father-in-lawco-parent-in-lawNo single word
your father-in-law → his brotheruncle by marriageniece or nephew by marriageNo single word
your father-in-law → his fathergrandfather-in-lawgrandchild-in-lawNo single word
your father-in-law → his sisteraunt by marriageniece or nephew by marriageNo single word
your granddaughter → her husbandgrandson-in-lawgrandparent-in-lawNo single word
your grandson → his wifegranddaughter-in-lawgrandparent-in-lawNo single word
your husband → his auntaunt by marriageniece or nephew by marriageNo single word
your husband → his brotherbrother-in-lawsibling-in-lawYes
your husband → his brother → his wifeco-sister-in-lawco-sibling-in-lawNo single word
your husband → his cousinfirst cousin by marriagefirst cousin by marriageNo single word
your husband → his fatherfather-in-lawchild-in-lawYes
your husband → his grandfathergrandfather-in-lawgrandchild-in-lawNo single word
your husband → his grandmothergrandmother-in-lawgrandchild-in-lawNo single word
your husband → his mothermother-in-lawchild-in-lawYes
your husband → his nephewnephew by marriageaunt or uncle by marriageNo single word
your husband → his nieceniece by marriageaunt or uncle by marriageNo single word
your husband → his sistersister-in-lawsibling-in-lawYes
your husband → his sister → her husbandco-brother-in-lawco-sibling-in-lawNo single word
your husband → his uncleuncle by marriageniece or nephew by marriageNo single word
your mother-in-law → her brotheruncle by marriageniece or nephew by marriageNo single word
your mother-in-law → her mothergrandmother-in-lawgrandchild-in-lawNo single word
your mother-in-law → her sisteraunt by marriageniece or nephew by marriageNo single word
your nephew → his wifeniece by marriageaunt or uncle by marriageNo single word
your niece → her husbandnephew by marriageaunt or uncle by marriageNo single word
your sister → her husbandbrother-in-lawsibling-in-lawYes
your sister → her wifesister-in-lawsibling-in-lawYes
your sister-in-law → her daughterniece by marriageaunt or uncle by marriageNo single word
your sister-in-law → her husbandco-brother-in-lawco-sibling-in-lawNo single word
your sister-in-law → her sonnephew by marriageaunt or uncle by marriageNo single word
your son → his husbandson-in-lawparent-in-lawYes
your son → his wifedaughter-in-lawparent-in-lawYes
your son-in-law → his motherco-mother-in-lawco-parent-in-lawNo single word
your spouse → their brotherbrother-in-lawsibling-in-lawYes
your spouse → their fatherfather-in-lawchild-in-lawYes
your spouse → their mothermother-in-lawchild-in-lawYes
your spouse → their sistersister-in-lawsibling-in-lawYes
your uncle → his wifeaunt by marriageniece or nephew by marriageNo single word
your wife → her auntaunt by marriageniece or nephew by marriageNo single word
your wife → her brotherbrother-in-lawsibling-in-lawYes
your wife → her brother → his wifeco-sister-in-lawco-sibling-in-lawNo single word
your wife → her cousinfirst cousin by marriagefirst cousin by marriageNo single word
your wife → her fatherfather-in-lawchild-in-lawYes
your wife → her grandfathergrandfather-in-lawgrandchild-in-lawNo single word
your wife → her grandmothergrandmother-in-lawgrandchild-in-lawNo single word
your wife → her mothermother-in-lawchild-in-lawYes
your wife → her nephewnephew by marriageaunt or uncle by marriageNo single word
your wife → her nieceniece by marriageaunt or uncle by marriageNo single word
your wife → her sistersister-in-lawsibling-in-lawYes
your wife → her sister → her husbandco-brother-in-lawco-sibling-in-lawNo single word
your wife → her uncleuncle by marriageniece or nephew by marriageNo single word

Step-family (38)

The connectionWhat to call themWhat you are to themA word for it?
your dad → his stepbrotherstep-unclestep-niece or step-nephewNo single word
your dad → his stepsisterstep-auntstep-niece or step-nephewNo single word
your grandparent → their husbandstep-grandfatherstep-grandchildYes
your grandparent → their wifestep-grandmotherstep-grandchildYes
your mom → her stepbrotherstep-unclestep-niece or step-nephewNo single word
your mom → her stepsisterstep-auntstep-niece or step-nephewNo single word
your parent → their husbandstepfatherstepchildYes
your parent → their spouse → the spouse's daughterstepsisterstep-siblingYes
your parent → their spouse → the spouse's sonstepbrotherstep-siblingYes
your parent → their stepbrotherstep-unclestep-niece or step-nephewNo single word
your parent → their stepsisterstep-auntstep-niece or step-nephewNo single word
your parent → their wifestepmotherstepchildYes
your parent's spouse → their child from another relationshipstep-siblingstep-siblingYes
your spouse → their daughterstepdaughterstep-parentYes
your spouse → their sonstepsonstep-parentYes
your step-aunt or step-uncle → their childstep-cousinstep-cousinNo single word
your step-sibling → their daughterstep-niecestep-aunt or step-uncleNo single word
your step-sibling → their sonstep-nephewstep-aunt or step-uncleNo single word
your stepbrother → his childstep-niece or step-nephewstep-aunt or step-uncleNo single word
your stepbrother → his daughterstep-niecestep-aunt or step-uncleNo single word
your stepbrother → his sonstep-nephewstep-aunt or step-uncleNo single word
your stepdad → his brotherstep-unclestep-niece or step-nephewNo single word
your stepdad → his fatherstep-grandfatherstep-grandchildNo single word
your stepdad → his motherstep-grandmotherstep-grandchildNo single word
your stepdad → his sisterstep-auntstep-niece or step-nephewNo single word
your stepdaughter → her childstep-grandchildstep-grandparentYes
your stepdaughter → her daughterstep-granddaughterstep-grandparentYes
your stepdaughter → her sonstep-grandsonstep-grandparentYes
your stepmom → her brotherstep-unclestep-niece or step-nephewNo single word
your stepmom → her fatherstep-grandfatherstep-grandchildNo single word
your stepmom → her motherstep-grandmotherstep-grandchildNo single word
your stepmom → her sisterstep-auntstep-niece or step-nephewNo single word
your stepsister → her childstep-niece or step-nephewstep-aunt or step-uncleNo single word
your stepsister → her daughterstep-niecestep-aunt or step-uncleNo single word
your stepsister → her sonstep-nephewstep-aunt or step-uncleNo single word
your stepson → his childstep-grandchildstep-grandparentYes
your stepson → his daughterstep-granddaughterstep-grandparentYes
your stepson → his sonstep-grandsonstep-grandparentYes

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FAQs

What do you call your husband's brother's wife?+

Most English speakers say sister-in-law, and that is understood, but strictly she is your husband's sister-in-law rather than yours: you are connected through two marriages, not one. English has no separate word for it. The chart below marks every relationship like this, where common usage stretches a term further than its strict meaning.

How many in-law relationships does English have no word for?+

63 of the 100 relationships in this chart have no single dedicated word in everyday English. People reach for the nearest term instead, which is why the same phrase can mean several different connections depending on who is speaking.

Is your step-parent's child your step-sibling?+

Yes, if the connection is by marriage rather than birth. Your step-parent's child from another relationship is your stepbrother or stepsister, and you share no ancestor. If a parent and step-parent later have a child together, that child is your half-sibling, because you do share one parent.

Do in-law relationships end in a divorce?+

Socially that varies, but for record-keeping the relationship existed while the marriage did, and a tree should keep it. The connection is what explains why a person appears in a household, a will or a burial plot decades later, so deleting it usually removes the evidence rather than tidying it.

What is a co-in-law?+

The parents of your child's spouse: your child married theirs, so you are connected only through that marriage. English has no term at all, though several other languages do. Records sometimes name these people as witnesses or executors, which is often the only clue that the families were linked.

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