In-law and step-family name chart
What to call every in-law and step relative, and what you are to them in return. 100 relationships, of which 63 have no single word in English, which is why people reach for the nearest one and the same phrase ends up meaning several different things. Each row links to a fuller answer.
In-laws (62)
| The connection | What to call them | What you are to them | A word for it? |
|---|---|---|---|
| your aunt → her husband | uncle by marriage | niece or nephew by marriage | No single word |
| your brother → his husband | brother-in-law | sibling-in-law | Yes |
| your brother → his wife | sister-in-law | sibling-in-law | Yes |
| your brother-in-law → his daughter | niece by marriage | aunt or uncle by marriage | No single word |
| your brother-in-law → his son | nephew by marriage | aunt or uncle by marriage | No single word |
| your brother-in-law → his wife | co-sister-in-law | co-sibling-in-law | No single word |
| your child → their husband | son-in-law | parent-in-law | Yes |
| your child → their wife | daughter-in-law | parent-in-law | Yes |
| your cousin → her husband | first cousin by marriage | first cousin by marriage | No single word |
| your cousin → his wife | first cousin by marriage | first cousin by marriage | No single word |
| your daughter → her husband | son-in-law | parent-in-law | Yes |
| your daughter → her wife | daughter-in-law | parent-in-law | Yes |
| your daughter-in-law → her father | co-father-in-law | co-parent-in-law | No single word |
| your father-in-law → his brother | uncle by marriage | niece or nephew by marriage | No single word |
| your father-in-law → his father | grandfather-in-law | grandchild-in-law | No single word |
| your father-in-law → his sister | aunt by marriage | niece or nephew by marriage | No single word |
| your granddaughter → her husband | grandson-in-law | grandparent-in-law | No single word |
| your grandson → his wife | granddaughter-in-law | grandparent-in-law | No single word |
| your husband → his aunt | aunt by marriage | niece or nephew by marriage | No single word |
| your husband → his brother | brother-in-law | sibling-in-law | Yes |
| your husband → his brother → his wife | co-sister-in-law | co-sibling-in-law | No single word |
| your husband → his cousin | first cousin by marriage | first cousin by marriage | No single word |
| your husband → his father | father-in-law | child-in-law | Yes |
| your husband → his grandfather | grandfather-in-law | grandchild-in-law | No single word |
| your husband → his grandmother | grandmother-in-law | grandchild-in-law | No single word |
| your husband → his mother | mother-in-law | child-in-law | Yes |
| your husband → his nephew | nephew by marriage | aunt or uncle by marriage | No single word |
| your husband → his niece | niece by marriage | aunt or uncle by marriage | No single word |
| your husband → his sister | sister-in-law | sibling-in-law | Yes |
| your husband → his sister → her husband | co-brother-in-law | co-sibling-in-law | No single word |
| your husband → his uncle | uncle by marriage | niece or nephew by marriage | No single word |
| your mother-in-law → her brother | uncle by marriage | niece or nephew by marriage | No single word |
| your mother-in-law → her mother | grandmother-in-law | grandchild-in-law | No single word |
| your mother-in-law → her sister | aunt by marriage | niece or nephew by marriage | No single word |
| your nephew → his wife | niece by marriage | aunt or uncle by marriage | No single word |
| your niece → her husband | nephew by marriage | aunt or uncle by marriage | No single word |
| your sister → her husband | brother-in-law | sibling-in-law | Yes |
| your sister → her wife | sister-in-law | sibling-in-law | Yes |
| your sister-in-law → her daughter | niece by marriage | aunt or uncle by marriage | No single word |
| your sister-in-law → her husband | co-brother-in-law | co-sibling-in-law | No single word |
| your sister-in-law → her son | nephew by marriage | aunt or uncle by marriage | No single word |
| your son → his husband | son-in-law | parent-in-law | Yes |
| your son → his wife | daughter-in-law | parent-in-law | Yes |
| your son-in-law → his mother | co-mother-in-law | co-parent-in-law | No single word |
| your spouse → their brother | brother-in-law | sibling-in-law | Yes |
| your spouse → their father | father-in-law | child-in-law | Yes |
| your spouse → their mother | mother-in-law | child-in-law | Yes |
| your spouse → their sister | sister-in-law | sibling-in-law | Yes |
| your uncle → his wife | aunt by marriage | niece or nephew by marriage | No single word |
| your wife → her aunt | aunt by marriage | niece or nephew by marriage | No single word |
| your wife → her brother | brother-in-law | sibling-in-law | Yes |
| your wife → her brother → his wife | co-sister-in-law | co-sibling-in-law | No single word |
| your wife → her cousin | first cousin by marriage | first cousin by marriage | No single word |
| your wife → her father | father-in-law | child-in-law | Yes |
| your wife → her grandfather | grandfather-in-law | grandchild-in-law | No single word |
| your wife → her grandmother | grandmother-in-law | grandchild-in-law | No single word |
| your wife → her mother | mother-in-law | child-in-law | Yes |
| your wife → her nephew | nephew by marriage | aunt or uncle by marriage | No single word |
| your wife → her niece | niece by marriage | aunt or uncle by marriage | No single word |
| your wife → her sister | sister-in-law | sibling-in-law | Yes |
| your wife → her sister → her husband | co-brother-in-law | co-sibling-in-law | No single word |
| your wife → her uncle | uncle by marriage | niece or nephew by marriage | No single word |
Step-family (38)
| The connection | What to call them | What you are to them | A word for it? |
|---|---|---|---|
| your dad → his stepbrother | step-uncle | step-niece or step-nephew | No single word |
| your dad → his stepsister | step-aunt | step-niece or step-nephew | No single word |
| your grandparent → their husband | step-grandfather | step-grandchild | Yes |
| your grandparent → their wife | step-grandmother | step-grandchild | Yes |
| your mom → her stepbrother | step-uncle | step-niece or step-nephew | No single word |
| your mom → her stepsister | step-aunt | step-niece or step-nephew | No single word |
| your parent → their husband | stepfather | stepchild | Yes |
| your parent → their spouse → the spouse's daughter | stepsister | step-sibling | Yes |
| your parent → their spouse → the spouse's son | stepbrother | step-sibling | Yes |
| your parent → their stepbrother | step-uncle | step-niece or step-nephew | No single word |
| your parent → their stepsister | step-aunt | step-niece or step-nephew | No single word |
| your parent → their wife | stepmother | stepchild | Yes |
| your parent's spouse → their child from another relationship | step-sibling | step-sibling | Yes |
| your spouse → their daughter | stepdaughter | step-parent | Yes |
| your spouse → their son | stepson | step-parent | Yes |
| your step-aunt or step-uncle → their child | step-cousin | step-cousin | No single word |
| your step-sibling → their daughter | step-niece | step-aunt or step-uncle | No single word |
| your step-sibling → their son | step-nephew | step-aunt or step-uncle | No single word |
| your stepbrother → his child | step-niece or step-nephew | step-aunt or step-uncle | No single word |
| your stepbrother → his daughter | step-niece | step-aunt or step-uncle | No single word |
| your stepbrother → his son | step-nephew | step-aunt or step-uncle | No single word |
| your stepdad → his brother | step-uncle | step-niece or step-nephew | No single word |
| your stepdad → his father | step-grandfather | step-grandchild | No single word |
| your stepdad → his mother | step-grandmother | step-grandchild | No single word |
| your stepdad → his sister | step-aunt | step-niece or step-nephew | No single word |
| your stepdaughter → her child | step-grandchild | step-grandparent | Yes |
| your stepdaughter → her daughter | step-granddaughter | step-grandparent | Yes |
| your stepdaughter → her son | step-grandson | step-grandparent | Yes |
| your stepmom → her brother | step-uncle | step-niece or step-nephew | No single word |
| your stepmom → her father | step-grandfather | step-grandchild | No single word |
| your stepmom → her mother | step-grandmother | step-grandchild | No single word |
| your stepmom → her sister | step-aunt | step-niece or step-nephew | No single word |
| your stepsister → her child | step-niece or step-nephew | step-aunt or step-uncle | No single word |
| your stepsister → her daughter | step-niece | step-aunt or step-uncle | No single word |
| your stepsister → her son | step-nephew | step-aunt or step-uncle | No single word |
| your stepson → his child | step-grandchild | step-grandparent | Yes |
| your stepson → his daughter | step-granddaughter | step-grandparent | Yes |
| your stepson → his son | step-grandson | step-grandparent | Yes |
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FAQs
What do you call your husband's brother's wife?+
Most English speakers say sister-in-law, and that is understood, but strictly she is your husband's sister-in-law rather than yours: you are connected through two marriages, not one. English has no separate word for it. The chart below marks every relationship like this, where common usage stretches a term further than its strict meaning.
How many in-law relationships does English have no word for?+
63 of the 100 relationships in this chart have no single dedicated word in everyday English. People reach for the nearest term instead, which is why the same phrase can mean several different connections depending on who is speaking.
Is your step-parent's child your step-sibling?+
Yes, if the connection is by marriage rather than birth. Your step-parent's child from another relationship is your stepbrother or stepsister, and you share no ancestor. If a parent and step-parent later have a child together, that child is your half-sibling, because you do share one parent.
Do in-law relationships end in a divorce?+
Socially that varies, but for record-keeping the relationship existed while the marriage did, and a tree should keep it. The connection is what explains why a person appears in a household, a will or a burial plot decades later, so deleting it usually removes the evidence rather than tidying it.
What is a co-in-law?+
The parents of your child's spouse: your child married theirs, so you are connected only through that marriage. English has no term at all, though several other languages do. Records sometimes name these people as witnesses or executors, which is often the only clue that the families were linked.
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