What is my wife's uncle to me?

Your wife's uncle is your uncle by marriage. English never coined a formal word for a spouse's uncle — 'uncle-in-law' never caught on — so genealogists say 'by marriage' and most families simply use 'uncle.' He is your wife's parent's brother, with no blood link to you.

Relationship

Uncle by marriage

English has no single formal word for this relative — “uncle by marriage” is the label genealogists use.

  1. You
  2. Your wife
  3. Her uncle

From the other side, you are their niece or nephew by marriage.

This connection runs through a marriage, not a shared ancestor, so the ancestor chart can't draw it.

The calculator below works out blood relationships through a shared ancestor — use it to explore the rest of your tree.

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This relationship sits outside the shared-ancestor model, so the card above carries the answer and the calculator opens in its default state. Work out any blood relationship with it, or open the full relationship calculator.

FAQs

What would my wife's uncle be to me?+

Your uncle by marriage — the term is set by the marriage, however you phrase the question.

Who am I to my wife's uncle?+

You are his niece or nephew by marriage: the same connection read from the other side.

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