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What is my sister's boyfriend to me?

Your sister's boyfriend has no kinship term: English only hands out in-law titles at a wedding. Most people say "my sister's boyfriend" or use his name. If they marry, he becomes your brother-in-law, and some families start saying "future brother-in-law" once there's an engagement.

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Relationship

Sister's boyfriend

English has no word for this person until there's a wedding. Families just say “sister's boyfriend”.

  1. You
  2. Your sister
  3. Her boyfriend

From the other side, you are their girlfriend's sibling.

A partner who hasn't married into the family has no family link for the ancestor chart to draw.

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This relationship sits outside the shared-ancestor model, so the card above carries the answer and the calculator opens in its default state. Work out any blood relationship with it, or open the full relationship calculator.

FAQs

Is my sister's boyfriend my brother-in-law?+

Not yet. The title comes with the wedding. Some families use "future brother-in-law" once there's a ring.

Who am I to my sister's boyfriend?+

His girlfriend's sibling, which has no title either.

Does the calculator store my family details?+

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